Once in awhile, I see the culture around me getting something right. Really right. This is because there is some wisdom which is given to all people that can be discovered no matter what one believes. It is a gift from God, but might not be acknowledged as such.
The Huffington Post’s Seth Adam Smith has written about love, commitment, and moving beyond feelings. It’s good. Highly Recommended. It’s the type of thing that people who live in a culture saturated with self-seeking can read and feel compelled by.
Now, not taking away anything from Mr Smith’s wisdom, I feel like I’ve heard this stuff before. I don’t know what he believes but I like what I read. If you like what you read and think it’s new than we need to be careful that we’re not like Columbus ‘discovering’ the Americas. Many people have been living here for a long time. There is an ideal of love that is not based on what we get but what we give. And there is an ideal of marriage which is about giving oneself to another and not seeking our own fulfillment.
It’s almost as though we could use an ancient moral tradition which has been teaching this all along…